其他可以中游，但这项不行 — Good People Skills
如果其他都可以中游的话，这个绝对不可以，必须上游！恩，有道理！！！ 嗯，这个真的需要越高越好 恩，有道理～这是本书嘛？ 很有道理啊~ 请楼主多分享有关于这方面提升的资源，深感重要啊！ 为什么这样的内容都是英文的，大家见过中文的吗？！我们孩子的课本里有吗？！ tianyirao 发表于 2013-3-5 10:49 static/image/common/back.gif
恩，有道理～这是本书嘛？
这不是书，只是班级门上的一个Poster。 素质与涵养的提高！ 缺失，缺失，无奈叹息 xuer304 发表于 2013-3-5 11:03 static/image/common/back.gif
请楼主多分享有关于这方面提升的资源，深感重要啊！
其实每册英文绘本里（当然有些中文也有）都在传递着其中的某一项。家长留意，孩子才会留意。
另外可以跟孩子经常强调一下这些注意事项。
一个好的办法是，每周跟孩子坐下来，逐项回顾一下这周在各个方面做得怎么样？
在家里综合考评的时候，看的不仅仅是学习成绩，还要看到这些更加重要的方面的进步，并适当给予奖励。
碧云金毛于2013-3-5 11:30补充以下内容：
英语牛蛙，数学牛蛙都是浮云，这个牛才是真正的牛！ 这才是真正的培养孩子 坚决同意，这个很重要。我们这一代成长过程中，这些都有点缺失。独生子女，父母宠爱。
希望在下一代培养中，注重这些本该是最重要的。 10项全能就完美了 Step 1
Start with a smile and a great welcome. Smiles are contagious and will win over many people without a word. A warm smile shows you are friendly, open and ready to communicate. You also will be more relaxed as you strengthen your people skills.
Step 2
Listen to the other person. Everyone wants to be heard and understood. Actively listen, and think about what she is saying, not what you are going to say next. With two ears and one mouth, your ears should be twice as engaged in the conversation. You will also learn a lot about the other person and have a great knowledge base to work from as you have a two-way dialogue with her.
Step 3
Eye contact will keep the other person interested in you. It shows that you genuinely care about him and what he has to say. Your eyes communicate much more than your mouth ever will. Build your people skills by looking people in the eye when you are talking, not staring at your hands or feet. When you listen to responses, maintain eye contact and nod when appropriate to send nonverbal cues that you are still engaged in the conversation.
Step 4
Call the person by name. If you have struck up a conversation with someone new and she has yet to introduce herself, you can interject with your name to prompt her to tell you hers. "I am Sue, by the way," will give her the chance to say, "Oh, I'm Mary. Nice to meet you." Be sure to use her name throughout the conversation as a quick reminder to yourself. This will also make her feel important to you; people like hearing their own name.
Step 5
Interact with others frequently. Use every opportunity you have in a group setting to improve your people skills. As you meet more people, your good people skills will grow and adapt to a wide variety of social situations and personalities. You will learn which methods are more effective with shy people versus outgoing people, for example. Each person you meet and interact with is unique, and your people skills will flourish with each interaction.
Step 6
Work together with others to solve problems. In a group setting, you can bond with other people and improve your people skills by coming together with a common goal in mind. When conversing with people individually, you can learn about the challenges they are facing that you may have a solution for. A pregnant woman may be in need of maternity clothes, and you have a box of them sitting in your closet. By helping others meet their needs, you are building trust and learning the art of compromise. These advanced people skills will help you in many areas of life.
值得学习。很多绘本就传递了这样的信息。 lz从哪儿看来的？不错啊
本帖最后由 tigie 于 2013-3-8 08:33 编辑
这个帖子我好喜欢,只是照片能再照好看不点?懒人想直接打印下来,不过不用费心再照了,有照片就不错了,要求太挑剔,下次就什么都没有啦.哈哈 tigie 发表于 2013-3-8 08:32 static/image/common/back.gif
这个帖子我好喜欢,只是照片能再照好看不点?懒人想直接打印下来,不过不用费心再照了,有照片就不错了,要求太挑 ...
都在这那！
http://librex.co.uk/posters/behavior-management-poster/behaviour-management-posters-set-of-6.html?SID=2oe56uh2djd36v7p63sllrpih0
本帖最后由 tigie 于 2013-3-8 13:46 编辑
碧云金毛 发表于 2013-3-8 12:46 static/image/common/back.gif
都在这那！
http://librex.co.uk/posters/behavior-management-poster/behaviour-management-posters- ...
Wow~~~您相当得高效！！！{:soso_e179:}
占位等更新。 很好的海报，谢谢分享 挺有道理的。 这方面确实是重中之重，而且感觉很多大学生都未必能意识到这一点。我也是都年纪很大了才体会到的。给娃上绘画的早教时，看到周围有锻炼演讲的早教班了，不知道这个班能有效嘛？表示怀疑呢 本帖最后由 yingshanhongkai 于 2013-6-9 12:49 编辑
在中国的古代，其实这十个方面是教学的重要内容，先生是授教，学生受教，并一起行之。现在有很多专家，学者，也有很多书，强调这些，但有多少人能践行呢，大人做不到，于是小孩也做不到，老师做不到，于是学生也做不到。。。可惜啊！一本1080个字的《弟子规》已经足以包含！
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