骏爸 发表于 2012-4-10 00:45:59

用来鼓励孩子的英文句子

      当孩子成功做好一件事时,需要父母鼓励;当孩子遇到困难时,更需要父母鼓励。在养育骏骏的过程中,有时觉得在鼓励孩子时,来来去去用的都是那么几句话,显得毫无变化。为此在网上找了两份资料,在此与大家分享:

      第一份资料:Encouraging Things to Say to Kids

         “A child needs encouragement like a plant needs water.” ~Rudolph Dreikurs
          Here is a list of encouraging phrases to say to kids. Some of these examples fit many kinds of scenarios, and others are responses I’ve said to my kids about something specific that happened. I try to say these kinds of things daily, and, once I understood what makes a response encouraging (as opposed to praising, belittling, fixing, etc.), it’s actually not very difficult to fit them into conversation.          Every day my kids have opportunities to feel proud and to want me to encourage them even further. But rather than say, “Good job, that makes me so happy,” I try to find a way to focus it on their efforts. In short, encouraging statements keep the task/ action/ problem/ accomplishment about the child, not about the parent.   Every positive discipline tool is designed to encourage chidden, help them feel capable, and connect us closer to each other. All of these phrases acknowledge and appreciate something positive about a child and are encouraging words to hear:
[*]I love you.
[*]I’m sure you can find a way to solve this problem.
[*]Boy, you worked so hard on that! It really shows.
[*]I have faith in you to figure it out.
[*]I know you don’t like doing this, and I thank you for doing it anyway. It really helps.
[*]The amount of detail you added to this drawing makes it seem so life-like.
[*]You must feel so proud of yourself right now!
[*]Your eyes easily spotted the quickest way through that maze.
[*]I noticed that you’ve been working hard at cutting your own food.
[*]You did it!
[*]Thank you for putting all of our towels in the laundry. It helps us get ready much faster.
[*]Trust yourself.
[*]It sounds like your body is trying to tell you something.
[*]I noticed how long you stuck with that.
[*]You have the right to feel angry.
[*]I can tell that some special mom/ dad time would help you right now.
[*]How do you feel about what you accomplished?
[*]I appreciate your cooperation.
[*]Thanks for helping.
[*]What do you think?
[*]What do you need to do to accomplished your goal?
[*]I’m listening.
[*]That was hard for you; thank you!
[*]I can see you are really angry right now, and that’s OK.
[*]What would you do about it?
[*]I just want to sit and be close to you for a few minutes.
[*]It’s OK to be sad.
[*]I appreciate you setting the table so neatly.
[*]Wow!
[*]I know you are upset. I would be too.
[*]You can try again tomorrow.
[*]What is your understanding of what needs to happen?
[*]Your piggy bank is getting really full; it must have taken you a long time to save all that.
[*]You decide.
[*]I have faith that we can find a respectful solution.
[*]Look at what you’ve accomplished!
[*]You are capable.
[*]Thank you for getting dressed so quickly.
[*]I noticed you gave your toy to that boy when he was sad. I bet it helped him feel better.
[*]What is your plan for getting this done?
[*]I’m sorry.
[*]I love you.
[*]You lead the way.


      第二份资料:50 Encouraging Things to Say to Your Kids

         Words can really change attitudes, self-esteem, relationships, and lives. Here are 50 things that you can say to your kids. Try at least one of them today. Also, it's good to be specific when using praise. Instead of "beautiful picture" try saying, "I really like the colors you used." Instead of "nice job" try, "You did a great job cleaning your room. It looks so nice."


[*]I love you.
[*]You mean so much to me.
[*]I'm proud of you!
[*]Great job.
[*]Nice try.
[*]I'll pray for you.
[*]You make me happy.
[*]Have a good day.
[*]You're beautiful.
[*]You can do it.
[*]You're the best!
[*]You're good at this.
[*]I like the way you did that.
[*]You're so smart.
[*]That was thoughtful of you.
[*]I appreciate your help.
[*]Very clever.
[*]You have a lot of talent.
[*]Fantastic!
[*]Way to go.
[*]Your efforts are paying off.
[*]I can tell how hard you've been working.
[*]Outstanding!
[*]You're a hard worker.
[*]You're an excellent helper.
[*]Well done.
[*]I knew you could do it.
[*]Marvelous!
[*]You figured it out.
[*]What an imagination.
[*]I am blessed to have you in my life.
[*]You made my day.
[*]You're a good friend.
[*]You made a good decision.
[*]You're incredible.
[*]Good for you.
[*]Now you have the hang of it.
[*]You're really improving.
[*]That's the best ever.
[*]Much better.
[*]I can tell you've been practicing.
[*]You should be proud of yourself.
[*]What an accomplishment!
[*]You've really learned a lot.
[*]Congratulations!
[*]You figured that out fast.
[*]You made it look easy.
[*]It makes me happy when you do your best.
[*]That's quite an improvement.
[*]Good thinking!

wwwchem 发表于 2012-4-10 07:04:31

很好的收藏

math123 发表于 2012-4-10 07:11:53

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泽妈 发表于 2012-4-10 08:24:13

很好啊,收藏了。

star2006 发表于 2012-4-10 08:36:26

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yibanxiang 发表于 2012-4-10 09:30:25

放手机里了,随时学习,谢谢

funiu 发表于 2012-4-11 10:25:05

太好了谢谢

hmcaoying 发表于 2012-4-11 10:34:12

学习了,谢谢分享

妈咪爱Jerry 发表于 2012-4-11 13:39:06

谢谢啊。好好学习中!

ritabcy 发表于 2012-4-22 01:24:16

谢谢骏爸的分享

flora602 发表于 2012-4-22 11:39:21

谢谢骏爸分享。。。

enxi_dong 发表于 2012-4-22 12:29:24

我收藏一个,这个不错

畅畅妈2004 发表于 2012-4-22 13:29:54

不错,喜欢。

月月060518 发表于 2012-4-23 14:51:30

好多呀!!!

tjwxh 发表于 2012-5-1 13:09:30

收藏一下!

poohbear 发表于 2012-5-9 10:32:27

赶紧收藏。。。。。

--乐乐融融-- 发表于 2012-5-9 10:45:28

收藏了,谢谢分享。

hanyuccr 发表于 2012-5-10 16:50:18

很好的收藏

妞妈jenny 发表于 2012-5-15 22:26:23

好东西,收藏了。

Rosedejia 发表于 2012-5-15 23:40:35

谢谢楼主!收藏了。

b3410 发表于 2012-5-16 18:53:52

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天意缘2020 发表于 2012-5-31 09:16:11

太好了 好需要

liyy2047 发表于 2012-5-31 18:22:12

多谢了,干净学习。

authentec 发表于 2012-6-1 22:01:47

少了awesome

wqbaby 发表于 2012-6-2 00:03:26

之妍 发表于 2012-6-30 21:22:06

收藏了,谢谢

悠远一线 发表于 2012-6-30 21:24:35

很好,谢谢,收藏了

azmm 发表于 2012-7-5 10:22:42

“A child needs encouragement like a plant needs water.”
like this sentence.
不错,收藏!

seawind 发表于 2012-7-5 10:27:13

谢谢分享,收藏

huanhuan 发表于 2012-7-5 12:52:35

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