Your 17-month-old's language and cognitive development: All talk
by Dana Sullivan
Reviewed by the
BabyCenter Medical Advisory Board New this month: All talk
Observing
a child as she learns to talk is one of the most fascinating
experiences of parenthood. Some children babble with an occasional
recognizable word mixed in. Others learn to say one word clearly and
then add another, slowly building up a vocabulary. Others may use one
word for days or weeks and then suddenly drop it. Which is normal?
Actually, each is.
Labeling objects will help your child learn
words. You can label sensations, as in, "The sidewalk feels hot," or
objects: "See the airplane?" When you push your child in a stroller or
walk with her in a backpack, take time to point out the things you see.
You don't have to go on and on — just make her aware of what's around.
Try to use normal speech instead of baby talk. Soon she'll take the lead
and point out familiar objects without your prompting.
What you can do
When
you're cooking dinner, take three measuring cups out of a drawer and
show her: "This is the big cup, here's the medium-sized cup ... and the
little cup." You can turn any daily activity into a language lesson.
If
your child isn't saying much, try to speak in short sentences whenever
possible, especially if your child seems confused when you ask her
questions or are giving her directions. Just eliminating a word or two
might help her understand. For example, say "Eat your toast" instead of
"Aren't you hungry? Why don't you eat your toast?" It's possible that
too many words are overwhelming her and the basic message is getting
lost. Try to use positive instructions ("Eat your toast") instead of
negative instructions ("Don't throw your toast on the floor"). Remember
that listening is an essential part of language acquisition. (A hearing
problem can cause language delays. Talk to your pediatrician if you
suspect a problem.)
Other developments: Playing to learn, fascination with texturesFor
you, play is a way of relaxing — whether that means playing tennis or
playing chess. But for children, play is learning. Through play children
learn about their senses, and they fine-tune a variety of gross- and
fine-motor skills. Whether she's stacking blocks and banging on pots, or
digging in sand and throwing balls, a toddler is learning what her body
can do, what various objects feel like, and how they smell and taste.
Creating
art is one of a toddler's favorite pastimes. Remember when you first
showed your child how to use a crayon, and she colored back and forth,
making wavy lines willy-nilly all over the page? Now she is capable of
controlling the pencil or crayon a little bit, and may start to draw in
circles. A few months ago she covered a piece of paper with scribbles;
now she will draw more deliberately, decorating different parts of a
page with separate blocks of artwork. Your job is to give her plenty of
opportunities to do it.
Set your child up with big sheets of
thick paper; tape it to the table so it stays put. Offer her a few thick
crayons (she'll likely snap the little ones in half) or washable
markers. If she's not interested in drawing on paper, see if she'd like
to draw outside with sidewalk chalk. Finger painting, or making
handprints and footprints with paint, is usually a popular activity with
toddlers (who doesn't like having permission to make a huge mess?). Or,
next time you go for a walk, encourage her to collect some leaves,
pebbles, acorns, and the like. When you get home, make a collage that
commemorates your outing, gluing the items to a piece of cardboard that
she can then decorate with paint or markers.
Now that your
toddler can chew and eat a wide variety of foods — from meat to pasta to
spinach — expect her to express strong opinions about her likes and
dislikes. Experts say that at this age texture, rather than smell or
taste, is the key factor in food preferences. Strawberries, pudding,
Jell-O, a banana that is just past its prime — these are all foods that a
toddler may turn away from, even if she ate them willingly a few months
ago.
Toddlers are becoming aware of other sensations as well.
Some balk at walking barefoot on sand, cement, or grass for the same
reason they refuse some foods: They don't like the texture. Others don't
want to have their hair combed or brushed.