发在我微信里公众号(萌在多村)里的一片小文,网速太慢,图发不上来... 原文请查看: http://www.iliuye.com/index.php/art/322814外国人见面以后都聊什么呢? 在聊正事之前,都怎么寒暄呢?什么可以聊?什么不能聊? 今天我们来一起看一看:非正式场合的交际用语。
英语中最常用的寒暄语:
How are you?
你好么?
Good! what about you?
很好,你呢?
I am just OK, I had a nightmare last night...
我还行,就是昨晚做了个噩梦。。。
问候之后便是small talk, 最安全、最常用的small talk就是天气和交通, 几乎每天都用。
It is freezing outside, isn't it?
Yes, I even can't feel my nose!
The temperature is -10, but it feels like -20!
How was your traffic today?
It was so bad! It took me 1 hour to be here, usually I only need 30 minutes!
How about you?
I am OK, Though there was a lot of traffic on the highway, I only spent 20 minutes on the road.
Yeah, that's pretty good.
不适合small talk 的话题:
政治,宗教 等敏感的话题
或者国人常问的 吃了么?上哪儿去啊? 等问题,别人会感到很奇怪,似乎你在窥探他们隐私。
Small talk 之后就可以进行进一步的沟通了
比如开始谈正事,比如开始夸姑娘漂亮了,开始聊昨天的球赛等等。
希望大伙能有所收获:)