人世间最重要的是什么

几天前和朋友聊天，谈及无论你是身居高位，还是富可敌国，还是平平淡淡，孩子和亲情永远都是你心中最柔软最重要的部分。

正好今天看到华盛顿邮报上的一篇文章，奥巴马谈起他刚刚上大学的大女儿Sasha，说送别那刻的痛仿佛经历“心脏开膛手术“”。一个经历过世界风云变幻的人，说出以下的话，应该会给更多人以感悟吧。

“It was rough,” he said. “And it’s a reminder that, at the end of our lives, whatever else we accomplished, the things we’ll remember are the joys that our children — and hopefully, way later, our grandchildren — will miss. Holding their hands, swinging them on a swing, listening to them talk about what happened at school.”

“Simple stuff,” said a man who had once been one of the most powerful men in the world. “But ultimately that’s what matters.”

所以，看淡些身边的得失，让亲人们感受到你的温暖。