Winning is not important

和儿子比赛写字，让他先写一半，我再开始。结果有时我会赢他，他便会不高兴。我便教育他：“Winning is not important, the important thing is that you have tried hard.”  他答：“ I know winning is not important, but it surely feels good."无语，他说的是大实话。谁的内心不想赢呢，参与第一都是安慰失败者的呀。